The first step is the hardest.

The first step is the hardest for me...

I completely agree with this one, since I'm a new blogger all of this is completely new to me and I'm very curious if there will be an audience liking my hard work. There are a lot of bloggers with great tutorials about how to start a blog. They've got a great way of writing and explaining everything to the reader. They are like ninja's for blogs and that's what I want to become. I want to become a blog-ninja. Here are some of them I really like.

bloggingbasics
theblogstarter
bloggingbasics101

...and for every one else.
So, now about the saying itself.
When I think about this saying I try to get different scenes in my head and control if the saying is true. Well, in this case it's almost always true.

Compare it to pushing a rock, bigger than you, off a mountain.
When you stand at the top, you've got to push that big rock as hard as you can before it finally rolls down on it's own, without any further help. It can be so hard to push that rock that you won't be able to do it alone. This is where friends and family step in to help.

Or compare it to asking a girl out.
When you love a girl, you probably get nervous while talking to her alone. Boys often don't want a friend to be there when asking a girl out because they're afraid that the girl will say no in front of his friend. What if I told you that with a good friend near you, it's much more easier to talk to the girl you love because our friend is with you. Of course you should not take a friend who will laugh while talking to her, take a friend that's willing to help you and supports you at all times. Read the next part for my opinion about friends.

One friend to conquer the world.

Many people do not know what a real friend is, so what I'm going to tell you now is so important that it should never leave your mind and always be in your thoughts.

A friend is someone you know see very regularly for at least a year or even several years. You can't expect that "a best friend" will just fall down in front of you out of nowhere. You don't know when you're going to meet that one person that will be near you for the rest of your life. This often is at high school or university, but it can be at an age of 45 or even more, you just can't know. When you find that one person you capture him like a Pokemon, put him in your heart and never let him go. Best friends can get angry at each other, it's normal. You can't expect your friend to agree with everything you say or do. Otherwise, you're actually lying in front of his face. Just remember that a friend like this is precious and very rare. You don't need more than one, one and just one is just enough. The people who say they have more than a thousand friends, don't believe them. It's possible to have so much friends on Facebook but not in real life. This is scientifically proven.

Just friends:
Dunbar's number
abc.net
Real close friends:
sciencealert

I thank you for reading this and I hope it helps you making the first step. I know that the "friends part" has nothing to do with this very first saying of my blog but I think it's so important that I insisted on telling you.