The greatest healing therapy is friendship and love. ∼ Hubert H. Humphrey

I guess you've already heard about this saying at least once. If you didn't that's not the end of the world  because this means that I'm the one who has the honor to tell you.

I do not really know when and why Hubert H. Humphrey said this but I guess it was during some speech or an interview. What I think he meant with this is that our harts need love and friendship to deal with life. EVEN IF LIFE CAN BE DIFFICULT, LOVE AND FRIENDSHIP MAKE IT EASIER. Friendship is like one of the most important things in life, right in front of love. Why do I prefer friendship to love? For this simple reason: I've had had bad experiences with love.  But that doesn't mean I don't believe in true love though. I think that many people who are alone for their entire lives die early. 

A heart can kind of be compared to a candle. If your heart would be a candle, love would be its fuel. Without love it would slowly freeze until it gets too cold for the fire to continue burning. With enough love comes enough fuel to live a nice and active happy life. Once again, my only advice to you is to love and be loved by friends and family. To learn and teach from friends, family and experience of life.

So, my final conclusion about this saying is that every mental situation you got yourself in can be solved with the help of love and friendship.

In three words I can sum up everything I've learned about life: it goes on. ∼ Robert Frost

Live in the present and the future.

I mean, what is so important in the past that you should live in it? Only learning from it is what you can do. Making a mistake is not bad, only if you don't learn from it, a mistake can be called bad. Everyone makes a mistake, it's unavoidable. Mistakes are made by decisions and decisions are made by one's knowledge. The one who will never make a mistake in his life, should be called a god, the one's who make mistakes and learn from it are reality. And if I would go further, the one's who do not learn from their mistakes are simply stupid.

Live in the present and carefully write your future by making decisions over and over again. Every time a bit better thanks to the knowledge you have acquired with every mistake. I really do believe that if you cherish your environment and try to make every decision a better one, your life will be like heaven.

Since I really do like this subject and think it is important, this is the second time I write about it. Read in this post here: It is no use crying over spilt milk.

It is no use crying over spilt milk.

Decisions write the future.

This saying makes me think of a teacher I had in 2013-14. She was the ugliest, meanest and most disrespectful woman I had ever seen. She was like the bad side of nanny McFee. She did not care about moralities or respect or children. All she cared about was to make children's life a hell, the money and the days off. She used to say this saying a lot, more than was needed.

To me, this saying means that you can't undo a decision you've made or an action you took. You can solve it by making other decisions or actions but you can't go back in time to make another decision, like you're in a game. Once you killed somebody, you can't turn him bak alive. That would be awesome though. So, think about the decisions you've made and the actions you've done and learn from them, that's all you can do really. This is one of the golden rules of life. Never, never, ignore the advice of someone but take it and think about it before you make your decision. This will definitely make life a bit more complex but that effort will be rewarded.

 
PS: sorry for the delay of this post.

True love will never grow old.

What the world needs now is persistence and less lazyness.

This is is one of my favorites because I really recognize this saying in not only myself but also my environment. Did you knew that only 1/10 marriages survives the unavoidable path of life? I really respect the elders who were able to keep their relationship stable. I think that today's life is so much more complex (not difficult) than before. Today people brake up because they are having a bit of difficulties managing a family or work. So many couples brake up while they could be together and love each other until death. And just because of a simple problem that could be solved with a little or a lot of persistence and some help. Marriage means you are sure about a relationship and will support each other until death, it means you love each other so much that even World War 3 can't stop you from loving  your partner. 

Not even 30 years ago, almost 80% of marriages would survive successfully. Do you know why? Because back then, there were no easy options. Life was difficult but often way more simple then now. I agree, work was harder and community was rude but I don't think it has become so much better. The simple things of life have become so much more complex that it was even possible for Donald Trump to become president. How can it be so difficult to choose between Hillary and Trump. I agree, Hillary is not a good person, but at least she isn't a disaster.

All I hope is that in a nearby future at least 50% of marriages will survive. Adults shall be an example for kids so kids will make a better future. Thanks for reading, hope to see you again. Remember, you can always tell me your thoughts and ideas for next posts.

Can a person be better than someone else?

My first answer to this was yes but then I read this post on quora.com which just changed everything.
Read it and tell me what you think in the comments.

Today's most used saying?

Hello, do you hear me?

Haha, of course you don't you're reading.

I just wanted to ask a question: "What do you think is the most used saying around the world?"

Tell us all at Quora.com or  comment down below!

The first step is the hardest.

The first step is the hardest for me...

I completely agree with this one, since I'm a new blogger all of this is completely new to me and I'm very curious if there will be an audience liking my hard work. There are a lot of bloggers with great tutorials about how to start a blog. They've got a great way of writing and explaining everything to the reader. They are like ninja's for blogs and that's what I want to become. I want to become a blog-ninja. Here are some of them I really like.

bloggingbasics
theblogstarter
bloggingbasics101

...and for every one else.
So, now about the saying itself.
When I think about this saying I try to get different scenes in my head and control if the saying is true. Well, in this case it's almost always true.

Compare it to pushing a rock, bigger than you, off a mountain.
When you stand at the top, you've got to push that big rock as hard as you can before it finally rolls down on it's own, without any further help. It can be so hard to push that rock that you won't be able to do it alone. This is where friends and family step in to help.

Or compare it to asking a girl out.
When you love a girl, you probably get nervous while talking to her alone. Boys often don't want a friend to be there when asking a girl out because they're afraid that the girl will say no in front of his friend. What if I told you that with a good friend near you, it's much more easier to talk to the girl you love because our friend is with you. Of course you should not take a friend who will laugh while talking to her, take a friend that's willing to help you and supports you at all times. Read the next part for my opinion about friends.

One friend to conquer the world.

Many people do not know what a real friend is, so what I'm going to tell you now is so important that it should never leave your mind and always be in your thoughts.

A friend is someone you know see very regularly for at least a year or even several years. You can't expect that "a best friend" will just fall down in front of you out of nowhere. You don't know when you're going to meet that one person that will be near you for the rest of your life. This often is at high school or university, but it can be at an age of 45 or even more, you just can't know. When you find that one person you capture him like a Pokemon, put him in your heart and never let him go. Best friends can get angry at each other, it's normal. You can't expect your friend to agree with everything you say or do. Otherwise, you're actually lying in front of his face. Just remember that a friend like this is precious and very rare. You don't need more than one, one and just one is just enough. The people who say they have more than a thousand friends, don't believe them. It's possible to have so much friends on Facebook but not in real life. This is scientifically proven.

Just friends:
Dunbar's number
abc.net
Real close friends:
sciencealert

I thank you for reading this and I hope it helps you making the first step. I know that the "friends part" has nothing to do with this very first saying of my blog but I think it's so important that I insisted on telling you.